Code of Conduct

KhojaMatch is a safe environment for you to search for and find your spouse. KhojaMatch requires all its users and members to follow this Code of Conduct; this is to ensure that we can provide a safe and enjoyable platform that is in line with Islamic Law and our cultural heritage so that everyone using KhojaMatch can benefit from it.
Nikah / Mut’a
KhojaMatch recognises the undoubted validity and permissibility of Mut’a as part of Islam. However, KhojaMatch provides its services only and strictly for users seeking permanent marriage: Nikah.

The site therefore welcomes profiles of individuals who are not currently married and who are seeking permanent marriage. If you do not fall into this category then KhojaMatch is not for you.
    We have simple rules when communicating with others on KhojaMatch. They are no different to general Islamic teachings on communication and interaction:
  1. Be polite at all times
  2. Treat others with respect, politeness and Islamic etiquette
  3. Do not use abusive or offensive language. If you do not want to communicate with someone any further, a polite message is all you need to send
  4. Honesty is the best policy: Be honest and present yourself in an authentic manner
  5. Don't be afraid to be light hearted and give people a full insight into your personality
  6. Maintain your dignity and self-respect, and that of other users
  7. When in doubt seek help from a parent, mentor, scholar or the site admin team
Specific Rules:
    The Code of Conduct does not allow:
  1. any form of harassment or offensive behaviour, including but not limited to the posting of communications, pictures or recordings, which contain libelous, slanderous, abusive or defamatory statements, or racist, pornographic, obscene, or offensive language.
  2. circulation of chain letters through the Website;
  3. use of the Website to infringe the privacy rights, property rights, or other civil rights of any person;
  4. posting of messages, pictures or recordings or use the Website in any way which violates, plagiarises or infringes upon the rights of any third party, including but not limited to any copyright or trademark law, privacy or other personal or proprietary rights, or is fraudulent or otherwise unlawful or violates any law.
  5. your use of the Website is for your own personal use. You may not authorise others to use the Website and you may not transfer your accounts with other users.
  6. the use of the Website to distribute, promote or otherwise publish any material containing any solicitation for funds, advertising or solicitation for goods or websites.
Some Tips
KhojaMatch advises:
Use our whole range of communication tools to get to know someone after reading their profile - start by expressing interest, get to know some more about them using our icebreakers and then message them or send them instant messages.
Don't just request photos straight away. Get to know someone and find out more about who they really are!
If you receive random photo requests, we recommend you message them saying - 'get to know a little about me first!'
Help us
KhojaMatch is your website, and has been created by people like you for you. Our administrators screen profiles, but if you find anything suspicious, receive spam or find another user in breach of the Code of Conduct, please make sure you let us know.
Help us to build a community where marriages are successful, harmonious and long-lasting.
Meeting up
KhojaMatch insists that the family gets involved in the process of spouse selection.
During the process, a key stage is to meet up with the potential spouse. KhojaMatch insists this is done with the knowledge and blessings of both sets of parents / guardians.
We can help
Through KhojaMatch we are trying to change the way marriage is facilitated in our community. If you need any help at any stage, please let us know and we can arrange for confidential and personal advice and assistance.
Getting married
We wish you every success with your search, and insha'allah you will find your ideal spouse. Please let us know of your success stories!

Please always remember: KhojaMatch can only facilitate the marriage process. The blessing and love of marriage comes from Allah, from His mercy and grace. Keep Allah at the forefront in all that you do throughout this process and throughout your life.